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An experienced Systems Developer with focus on .NET architecture, JS with jQ, iOS apps and much more.

Also a pianist, love to play fusion, jazz-funk and the surrounding genres.


Feb
25
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
The point of asking this question was to aquire ways of bracing her. You are focusing on me as a coach, which is completely irrelevant in order to help her. As I've said; I will not coach or train her, I want tips on what to say when supporting her in training the mindset she feels lacking. Hell, I won't even be looking at the trainings. BUT, if I know what she needs, I can support her and point the instructor in the right direction.
Feb
25
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
I'm very sorry to hear about you gentlemen's shortcomings; me and my future wife have a very open-minded relationship. I can't think of anyone else that I can be as honest and frank to, as I can to her. Some things I keep to myself rather than tell my best friends, but she can handle whatever it is. Which includes things that require self-rationalization and self-perception. Any objective feedback. She does it to me too. Maybe this is a cultural thing; in Sweden we tend to not spend the rest of our lives with someone that isn't our very best friend. We never pretend to like or be nice.
Feb
22
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Feb
22
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
I'e updated my question and explained the "anger" part
Feb
22
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
I'e updated my question and explained the "anger" part
Feb
22
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
I'e updated my question and explained the "anger" part
Feb
22
revised How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
Improved my choice of words
Feb
22
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
The word "anger" is misguiding you, sorry for that. There are several forum threads on the internet about how to translate the Swedish word I'm looking for. Suggestions include "fighting spirit" and "anger-controlled determination".
Feb
22
comment How do I coach her mindset to better suit karate competitions?
You got the wrong idea; I am not her instructor, I do not train with her, and I am not her professional coach. We are engaged. We live together. And since I have Kyokushin experience, I would like to help her with the mindset that she feels is lacking. The word "anger" is misguiding you, sorry for that. There are several forum threads on the internet about how to translate the Swedish word I'm looking for. Suggestions include "fighting spirit" and "anger-controlled determination".
Feb
20
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Feb
20
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