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So, whilst it's not always possible by any means, especially if you have no or little training, one of the best approaches might be to ensure that no-one ever gets close enough to do this to you. This can be achieved by simply moving back or to the side, but again, without training, and depending upon your environment and your adrenaline levels, this can also be risky, and there's nothing to say your opponent won't follow.

So, whilst it's not always possible by any means, especially if you have no or little training, one of the best approaches might be to ensure that no-one ever gets close enough to do this to you. This can be achieved by simply moving back or to the side, but again, without training, and depending upon your environment and your adrenaline levels, this can also be risky, and there's nothing to say your opponent won't follow.

There are many approaches to this problem, and it will be interesting to see how different members address it.

Without in any way meaning to diminish your experience, the 'tough guy' 'in-your-face' move has a long, long history, and can be witnessed in nightclubs and pubs the world over with disturbing regularity.

Without in any way meaning to diminish your experience, the 'tough guy' 'in-your-face' move has a long, long history, and can be witnessed in nightclubs and pubs the world over with disturbing regularity.

I have been in this situation numerous times, both privately and professionally. In every instance, I avoided conflict with tactical communication, a defensive posture and by moving out of range (bar one, when I was forced to use the palm-push described earlier). This being said, I'm relatively experienced and was also very ready to engage should the need arise. It must be remembered though, I was lucky that none of my opponents possessed greater intent.

• Avoid venues with a reputation for trouble.
• Leave a venue if things don't feel right.
• Avoid ego-driven staring contests, pool-table arguments and other verbal stoushes.
• Resist the urge to play the alpha male defender of your girlfriend (or boyfriend's) 'honour' when you're out at night, when it will only lead to unnecessary trouble.
• Go out with trustworthy, sensible friends.
• Minimise/eliminate your intake of alcohol and other drugs.
• Be ready to telephone for police assistance if you feel threatened. Many people are embarrassed to do this and leave it too late. Police would much rather arrive and not be needed than to have to deal with violence and its aftermath.

I have been in this situation multiple times, both privately and professionally. In each instance, I avoided conflict with tactical communication, a defensive posture and by moving out of range (bar one, when I was forced to use the palm-push described earlier). This being said, I'm relatively experienced and was ready to engage should the need arise. It must be remembered though, I was very lucky that none of my opponents possessed greater intent and/or ability.

• Avoid venues with a reputation for trouble.
• Avoid places where you've encountered this individual.
• Leave a venue if things don't feel right.
• Avoid ego-driven staring contests, pool-table arguments and other verbal stoushes.
• Resist the urge to play the alpha male defender of your girlfriend (or boyfriend's) 'honour' when you're out at night, when it will only lead to unnecessary trouble.
• Go out with trustworthy, sensible friends.
• Minimise/eliminate your intake of alcohol and other drugs.
• Be ready to telephone for police assistance if you feel threatened. Many people are embarrassed to do this and leave it too late. Police would much rather arrive and not be needed than to have to deal with violence and its aftermath.